- Describe your fighting style: drunken master or angry monkey?
- If you wrote a journal entry about our date, what would it say?
- Are you better at eating salsa or dancing it?
- Do you prefer flowers or candy?
- Do you prefer chocolate or Ice cream?
1. What is your first name?
2. Were you named after anyone?
3. Do you wish on stars?
4. When did you have your worst cry?
5. Do you like your handwriting?
6. What is your favorite lunch meat?
7. What is your most embarrassing possession?
8. If you were another person, would you be friends with you?
9. Do you keep a diary?
10. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
11. What are your nicknames?
12. Would you bungee jump?
13. Do you untie your shoes before you take them off?
14. Do you think that you are strong?
15. What is your favorite food? For dinner?
16. Shoes on or shoes off? Am I outside or inside?
17. Red or pink?
18. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
19. What do you miss most?
20. Do you enjoy talking about yourself?
21. What is your favorite color?
22. What are you listening to right now?
23. Last thing you ate?
24. If you could change your hair color, what would you make it?
25. What is the weather like right now?
26. Last person you spoke with?
27. The first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
28. If you could change one physical aspect about yourself, what would it be?
29. Favorite drink?
30. Favorite sport?
31. Hair color?
32. Eye color?
33. Do you wear contacts?
34. Favorite book?
35. Last book you read?
36. Favorite day of the year?
37. Scary or happy endings?
38. Winter or summer?
39. Hugs or kisses?
40. What is your favorite dessert?
41. Who is most likely to answer so many questions about their life?
42. Who is the least likely to answer questions about themself?
43. What books are you reading?
44. What decorates your front porch?
45. What did you do last night?
46. Favorite smells?
47. Favorite sound?
48. Rolling Stones or Beatles?
49. What’s the furthest you’ve been from your home?
50. Do you have a special talent?
51. How frequently do you bathe?
52. How old do you look?
53. How old do you act?
54. What’s your favorite song?
55. Have you recently become a member of anything?
56. What are your plans for the weekend?
57. Does anything on your body itch right now?
58. Does every family have a crazy uncle?
59. Do you wish you were closer to your family?
60. Is there someone you have a crush on?
61. Is there someone who has a crush on you?
62. What foods do you dislike?
63. What characteristics in others do you despise?
64. Favorite item of clothing?
65. Where would you retire to?
66. Favorite time of the day?
67. What was your most memorable birthday?
68. Where were you born?
69. Do you have any pets?
70. What did you want to be when you were little?
71. Siblings?
72. What was your favorite toy as a child?
73. Living arrangements?
74. How many places have you visited?
75. Mountains of beach?
76. The current friends you have known the longest?
77. Full names of your potential children?
78. Bed time? .
79. Do you like males or females?
80. Are you considered beautiful/handsome?
81. Do you smoke anything?
82. Would you rather swim in the ocean or a lake?
83. Are you religious?
84. Do you like to have fun?
85, Are you afraid to die?
86. Do you eat because you’re depressed?
87. Which parent do you prefer to spend time with?
88. Do you enjoy watching animals?
89. Ever been arrested?
90. Ever commit a crime and get away with it?
91. Where do you wish you were right now?
92. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done?
93. What’s the best thing you’ve ever done for society?
94. If you could change the past, how would you?
95. what scares you most about the future?
96. Would you risk your life for love?
97. If you were starving to death, would you steal food from a poor person? I
98. Who do you admire?
99. If you could trade lives with someone, who would you choose?
100. Do you have any regrets?
101. If you were to die tomorrow, would you regret it?
100 Questions to Ask your Boyfriend
20 of the 100 questions to ask your boyfriend will be on his family
1. What year were you born?
2. Where were you born? Hospital? Home? Birth center? What city?
3. Do you know your birth story?
4. How did your parents meet?
5. What does your Mom do?
6. What does your Dad do?
7. What is the best part of family life?
8. What is the most challenging part of family life?
9. What is your favorite family memory?
10. What is your funniest family memory?
11. What is your least favorite family memory?
12. How many brothers and sisters do you have?
13. If you have brothers and sisters, what is your relationship with them like?
14. Does your family have any traditions?
15. If your family has traditions, do you have a favorite?
16. Do you have pets? If so, what kind?
17. How would you describe your family culture?
18. What are your Grandparents like?
19. How well do you know your cousins?
20. If you had to describe your family in one word, what would it be?
The next 20 of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend will be on career and education.
21. Have you been to college? If so, where?
22. If you have not been to college, do you plan on going? If so, where?
23. What was (or will be) your major in college?
24. Did you go to graduate school?
25. If you didn’t go to graduate school, do you want to go?
26. What is your dream job or career?
27. What is your current job?
28. Where do you see your career taking you over the next 10 years?
29. If you were to write a book, what would you write it on?
30. Describe your work ethic.
31. What jobs have you held in the past and how did you like them?
32. What is the favorite job you’ve ever had?
33. What was your least favorite job?
34. How do you feel about gender roles in the workplace?
35. Do you think that women and men should receive equal pay for equal work?
36. If you were the manager of a team, how would you manage them?
37. What job do you have the most respect for?
38. What job do you have the least respect for?
39. Is there a job that you know you could never do?
40. What is your motivation for working?
The following 20 of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend will focus on future family building.
41. Do you see yourself married at some point?
42. Do you see yourself with children at some point in the future?
43. If you want children, how many children would you like?
44. Do you think there should be specific gender roles in a marriage? If so, what are they?
45. Do you think that the pregnancy and birth process are important?
46. Do you have strong opinions on natural childbirth verses medicated childbirth?
47. How do you feel about breastfeeding and formula?
48. Do you believe in spanking?
49. What do you think is the best way to discipline a child?
50. Do you believe that everyone in a household should participate in household chores?
51. What role to in-laws play in family life?
52. How would you handle a disagreement between your spouse and your parents? Who would you support?
53. Do you have a preference on the religious rearing of children?
54. Do you believe children should be brought up to favor certain political views?
55. How do you feel about violent television shows or video games?
56. What value do you place on the education of children?
57. What method of education is best? Public school? Private school? Homeschool?
58. Do you believe in vaccinations?
59. What kind of Dad and husband do you see yourself being?
60. What is your role in the life of the family?
The next 20 of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend will focus on finances.
61. What method do you use for money management?
62. In a relationship, who manages the money and how?
63. Roughly how much do you usually keep in your bank accounts?
64. Do you have any debt?
65. If you have debt, how much and what kind?
66. Do you contribute to a retirement fund of some kind?
67. What are your yearly earnings?
68. In a marriage, would your spouse need to work to help make ends meet?
69. Do you have a budget? If so, can I see it?
70. How do you manage your yearly taxes?
71. Have you ever had a spending problem?
72. How do you look at money from an emotional standpoint?
73. Do you make a habit of saving money?
74. Do you routinely spend money you don’t have?
75. What was your economic upbringing like?
76. Would you rather have a full bank account or lots of stuff?
78. Do you value using money for experiences like traveling and the arts?
79. In a marriage, do you see money as going into one pot to share or being split into multiple pots?
80. What would you want to teach children about money management?
The final 20 of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend are on sex.
81. How many sexual partners have you had?
82. Have you ever had a sexually transmitted disease?
83. Have any of your past partners ever had a sexually transmitted disease?
84. Have you been tested for STD’s?
85. How often are you tested for STD’s?
86. Would you be willing to go to the doctor with me so that we could both be tested for STD’s?
87. When do you think the appropriate time to introduce sex into a relationship is? During dating? During cohabitation? After marriage?
88. How far are you comfortable going before marriage?
89. Do you have any religious views on sex?
90. Have you ever participated in any fringe sexual lifestyles?
91. Do you believe in monogamy?
92. Are there any sexual acts that make you uncomfortable?
93. How do you feel about pornography?
94. Do you have anything that you especially like sexually?
95. Have you had any difficult issues in your sexual past?
96. Have you ever cheated on someone sexually?
97. Have you ever been sexually abused?
98. Do you have any fertility issues that you are aware of?
99. How high is your libido?
100. Is there anything you would like to know about my sexual past?
1. Do you feel that you are an honest person?
2. Do you think that you are flawless?
3. Do you make hurtful comments when you are hurt?
4. Do you think that your emotions think better than your brain?
5. Do you think that your spouse is flawless?
6. Do you think that sometimes your emotions are in control of you?
7. Do you believe that you are partly responsible for the issues in your marriage?
8. Do you think that surrounding circumstances and problems affect your marriage?
9. Does money affect how you treat your spouse?
10. Do you feel that you are free from any emotional residue from your past?
11. Are you ever selfish?
12. Do you try to communicate with your spouse in a manner that they will clearly understand?
13. What is love?
14. Do you ever regret the things you say when you are emotional or angry?
15. Do you have any problems with drugs or alcohol?
16. When you are angry, do you stop loving the other person?
17. Did you try to meet your spouses needs the way that they needed them met?
18. Have you read the book The Love Dare or watched the movie FireProof ?
19. Do you think that you have any childhood pains that relive themselves in the present in some manner?
20. Do you nitpik?
21. Was there any physical abuse in your relationship?
22. Have you ever lied?
23. Name any addictions, of any kind, that you have.
24. Do you always focus on the things you don’t like about your spouse?
25. Do you know that love is a choice, that you chose to love or not?
26. Do you honestly believe that everything is your spouses fault?
27. When you get angry, does your anger control you?
28. How much capacity do you have for forgiveness?
29. Do you extend grace to others knowing that they have blemishes?
30. Did you pray together with your spouse?
31. When you make a mistake do you admit it and apologize when needed?
32. Do you consider yourself a pessimist?
33. Have either of you seeked out assistance for the issues in your marriage?
34. Do you take ownership of your own shortcomings?
35. Did you really try to get help to resolve the issues within your marriage?
36. Was sex a problem in your marriage?
37. How many sexual partners did you have before you got married?
38. Where you focused on meeting your spouses sexual needs or just yours?
39. What percentage of fault will you take ownership of for the issues in your marriage?
40. Did you both go to church and read the bible?
41. Have either of you been to any counselors or therapists?
42. Do you think that you are perfect and in no need of counseling?
43. Did you extend mercy for your spouses shortcomings?
44. Did you think that you would never have any problems when you got married?
45. Did you have sex with your spouse before you got married?
46. Do you have unreasonable expectations of your spouse?
47. Do you consider yourself to be other focused or self focused?
48. Has money been a contributing factor to the problems in your marriage?
49. Do you have memories from the past that impact your current reactions or decisions?
50. Did you know that before your can be honest with others, that you must first be honest with yourself and with God?
51. Do you really feel that you made many unsuccessful attempts to get resolve for the issues in your marriage?
52. Are there things that you want to avoid talking about, because you do not want to admit them?
53. Do you really think that you are free of all emotional baggage?
54. Did you know that anger is a secondary emotion to the primary emotions of fear, hurt, and frustration, which can include selfishness?
55. Do you stomp your feet when you do not get things your way?
56. Can you think of anyone who has caused you a hurt?
57. Do you now realize that you have some emotional baggage?
58. Did you know that when you admit your weaknesses that you mature?
59. Did you know that in order to love that you must be able to forgive?
60. Do you get upset when others hold you accountable for your actions?
61. Wouldn’t you like to be forgiven for all of your mistakes?
62. Have any of these questions bothered you so far?
63. Has victimhood ever been an issue within your relationship?
64. Do you play the victim to all your friends while you are blaming your spouse?
65. Do you have an accountibility partner who can help you be honest with yourself?
66. Are you harboring any feelings of bitterness within you?
67. Did you ever physically abuse your spouse in any way?
68. Are you attempting to cover up any truths so you do not have to face yourself?
69. Do you want to make the other person pay for what you feel that they did to you?
70. Do you know that forgiveness is a process?
71. Do you gossip to others about your spouse?
72. Do you tell others half truths?
73. Are you overly critical about yourself?
74. Did you know that if you do not respect yourself, that you will have a hard time respecting others?
75. Is it important to you that other people think highly of you?
76. Do you try to please others to a point of sacrificing your own integrity?
77. Did you know that in order to be strong you must first admit your weaknesses?
78. Do you turn love on like a light switch, where you love when you feel like it?
79. Did you know that the pains you have are your pains, that you carry them around?
80. Do you consider yourself to be understanding and compassionate?
81. Do you ever stop and ask yourself why you are angry?
82. Do you believe in love?
83. Do you believe in God?
84. Have you given significant thought to what the root problem is in your marriage?
85. How well do you think you handle stressful situations?
86. Does your stress ever effect your relationship?
87. When you are in an argument, do you stop and ask yourself if you are being selfish?
88. Do you often point the finger at your spouse without pointing it at yourself?
89. Did you know that in order for others to forgive you that you must first admit your fault, (confessing), then repenting, (stop doing the wrongful things), and then provide restitution when appropriate?
90. Are you unwilling to do things for others unless it benefits you?
91. Did you know that the root problems in most marriages stem from selfishness, dishonesty, and pride?
92. Do you know that women and men think completely differently and that you can not meet your spouses needs your way?
93. Ultimately who do you think supplies all your needs?
94. Did you know that people are dishonest because they do not want to admit their imperfections, (due to pride)?
95. Have you felt an uneasy feeling while answering some of these questions?
96. Did you know that God is inviting you to be honest with yourself right now?
97. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much love do you actually show your spouse?
98. Is there any part of you that wants to reconcile your relationship now?
99. Have these questions helped you to better understand yourself and your spouse?
100. Do you think that there is still no hope for your marriage?
1. What was your best job?
2. What were your worst jobs?
3. Tell me all the places you worked
4. Tell me about your best friend
5. Tell me about your family
6. Tell me about your relatives
7. What was your first car?
8. Favorite movie star?
9. Favorite entertainer?
10. Favorite song?
11. What were your life changing moments?
12. First girlfriend/boyfriend?
13. First kiss?
14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?
15. Have you ever been arrested?
16. Political affiliation?
17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t?
18. Have you used drugs?
19. Do you like to shop?
20. Best way to relax?
21. Favorite thing to do alone?
22. Ever had a one night stand?
23. Do you save money?
24. What hobbies to you spend money on?
25. If you found a $100 what would you do?
26. Do you want children/more children?
27. Are you a good parent?
28. What makes a good parent?
29. Are you romantic?
30. Ever loose a pet?
31. Dog or cat?
32. Pets growing up?
33. Sleep in the nude?
34. Favorite midnight snack?
35. Do you exercise?
36. Did you ever see your parents making love?
37. Peanut butter and what?
38. What is one food you will never give up?
39. What is a food you can live without?
40. Favorite drink?
41. Perfect day?
42. How many cds do you own?
43. How many dvds to you own?
44. Favorite thing to spend money on?
45. What is the weirdest thing about you?
46. What is on your bedside table?
47. Are you cheap or thrifty?
48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?
49. Grades in high school?
50. Favorite teacher?
51. Relatives in jail?
52. Toppings on pizza?
53. Black or white?
54. Glass half full or half empty?
55. Ever been to a food shelf?
56. Ever milked a cow?
57. Ever tipped a cow?
58. Bath or shower?
59. Mountains or the beach?
60. Plane, train or automobile?
61. Favorite all time movie?
62. Worse movie you have ever seen?
63. Best concert you have been to?
64. Beer, wine or coffee?
65. Best vacation?
66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?
67. Worse vacation?
68. Three places you would love to visit?
69. Worse boss?
70. If you could do anything what would it be?
71. Super powers you wish you had?
72. Ever had a massage?
73. Ideal romantic dinner?
74. Dumbest purchase you ever made?
75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke?
76. Ever sold blood?
77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price?
78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine?
79. Ever won the lottery?
80. What would you do with your lottery winnings?
81. Are you a neat freak?
82. Can’t stand being around people who_________?
83. Crowds or small groups?
84. How old do you want to live to?
85. Loose your sight or hearing?
86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex?
87. Pet peeves?
88. Most annoying habit?
89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex?
90. Major turn offs?
91. Tattoos?
93. Piercings?
94. Plastic surgery–would you/have you?
95. Computer geek?
96. Trekee?
97. Play an instrument?
98. Been in a band?
99. Most embarrassing moment?
100. Nude beach yes or no
ok enough for now , but more to come , do you think that questions are a good idea?
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