Come to the conclusion that allot of drinking is a poor thing to do especially that i havent got a job at the moment the last thing i need is the lack of motivation that comes from the intake of drinking , from what ive found a beer of two can actually cause a waste of a day and possibly another day after with a bit of a downer due to the fact the alcohole is still coming out your system. The price of drink for a single pint could purchase me a weeks worth of food. I could buy a huge bag of rice and some peas and corn for the same price of a bit of beer. So what ive found when drinking with certain types of people what ive found is that what sounds like a time in the pub with the lads for a constructive chat could easily be a gossiping session, a chance for people who dont really care about you or want to give constructive advice just to drink and keep you down.

Had enough of while working on goals having to sit in a pub and drink alcohole oin the company of people who only act as a trusted friend so that they can listen to your gossip and get further information to bitch about. People who listen to you and ask you questions but then use that information as gossip and nosey talk. Can find it hard to talk to these people.

I left my friend as i went to the toilet , when i came back a complete stranger comes over to me and knows stuff about me already. My friends mouth has been working double time while i was away and the topic of his conversation was me. Why do people do this? Why do people only talk about other people? I was sat listening to my friend and he was talking to me about all these peoples gossip that i dont even know!. How am i supposed to take this, i just stop talking or say look i dont care about these other people and shut your fucking mouth about my business.

Storey, i let my friend come over to my house and as soon as he met my housemates he started telling them all about what he knows about me, ive got nothing to hide but i would rather my housemates find out information when i choose to tell them instead of some random guy who cant control his mouth.

So not sure about this guy anymore as i think back this has happend too many times , how many times do you have to let somone just shit talk. Do friends always spend so much time talking about you?

I dont know i just think its happening too much, too many random people are knowing my shit and its all coming from one source. big mouth and uncontrolled tounge what the hell is going on with this guy what is he talking about all the time. i never spread gossip or rumors or personal details about my friends its not my place to talk about these people and ive had enough of this its all extra hastle and stress. How can i mix and blend my different friends when some people use others for extra gossip for there conversations.